Men who pay support know the deal. They know not all the money goes to the child and it’s used as a form of alimony until the child is 18. That’s why they fight the dollar amount of what they are told they have to pay in some occasions.
There should be a system in place where the mother is responsible for showing receipts to prove she is using the money for the child. But no that would mean they’re responsible for some sort of accountability. We can’t have that!